Sex Out Loud, UW-Madison's peer to peer sexual health resource. Providing university students with comprehensive, accessible, and pleasure-based sexuality education since 1998. Providing The University Of Wisconsin-Madison Campus Community Comprehensive, Accessible, and Pleasure-based Sexuality Education Since 1998 Request A Program ABOUT US Sex Out Loud's mission is to promote healthy sexuality through sex-positive education and activism. We acknowledge that each individual's sexuality is uniquely shaped by all facets of identity and experience. We seek to empower students to engage with these issues by providing inclusive and accessible programs, events, and resources, as well as safe spaces for reflection and discussion. Read More SERVICES Programs Sex Out Loud programs are a mix of interactive activities, guided group discussions, and presentations by trained peer facilitators. Events Four events weeks per year allow for keynote speakers, crafts, pole dancing, yoga, carnivals, and more! Office Find free safer sex supplies, an extensive library, free and confidential peer to peer counseling, and friendly staff faces! PROGRAMS OFFICE EVENTS SEE US ON CAMPUS Sex Out Loud Calendar Ask Us A Question

OUR STAFF Evan (He/Him) Chair/Program Coordinator Hello! I'm Evan and I use he/him pronouns and I am the Program Coordinator here at SOL! I’m entering my final year and I'm double majoring in Life Sciences Communication and Gender and Women's Studies with a couple of different certificates! My work at SOL focuses on increasing access to sexual health education. My current SOL project is focused on increasing our connection with residence hall communities as well as our connections with student organizations. After graduating, I hope to work in a couple of community non-profits as I begin collecting experience and continuing education credits to become sex ed certified. Vivian (She/her) Finance and Analytics Coordinator Hi! My name is Vivian and I'm the Finance and Analytics Coordinator at Sex Out Loud. I am a senior studying Molecular and Cell Biology and Data Science. I love to learn about sex, relationships, and how we talk about these topics. I am especially passionate about sociolinguistics and endocrinology and how it interacts with our sexual behaviors! In my free time, I like to spend time with friends, cook, and work on whatever little project I am up to at the time! Maddie (She/Her) Program Facilitator My name is Maddie, I use she/her pronouns and I am a senior studying Art & Art History! I am passionate about reproductive justice and access to comprehensive sex education for all. This year I want to learn more about the impacts of stress on the body and its connections to pleasure! In my free time I love to learn about new music, draw, thrift, and make a crazy good latte!! Mikayla (She/Her) Program Facilitator Hi! My name is Mi'kayla Harris (she/her), and I'm a sophomore at UW–Madison majoring in Kinesiology with the goal of becoming a sports physical therapist. I'm passionate about creating welcoming, inclusive spaces where people feel comfortable asking questions and having open conversations. I love meeting new people, working with different communities, and helping others. Outside of school, you'll usually find me listening to music, sitting by the lake, traveling, or spending time with my friends and family. Ari (He/Any) Event Coordinator Hi, my name is Ari! I use any pronouns, though primarily he/him. I am an event coordinator and an undergraduate majoring in Gender & Women's Studies and Sociology. I'm super passionate about intersectionality, sex-positivity, and diversity. I enjoy covering my walls with posters, criticizing Drag Race, and collecting books I probably won't read anytime soon. James (He/Him) Outreach & Marketing Coordinator Hi! My name is James Norcross, and I use he/him pronouns. Currently, I am a double major in both English and Journalism and am doing a certificate in 2D Studio Art! Here at Sex Out Loud, I am a Marketing and Outreach Coordinator and am very passionate about using eye catching, unique graphic design to spread the message about sex positivity to educate as many people as possible. In my spare time, you’ll find me sketching, making music, or biking around Madison. Tessa (She/Her) Program Facilitator Hello! My name is Tessa and I’m a program facilitator here at Sex Out Loud. I’m a sophomore majoring in Neurobiology with a certificate in Health and the Humanities. I am very passionate about science and medicine and I love helping Sex Out Loud stay updated on current sexual health research. I’m interested in learning more about how our perceptions of sexuality are shaped by both biology and cultural values. In my free time, you'll find me reading, listening to music, or roller skating. Kaleb (He/ Him ) Program Facilitator Hello I’m Kaleb, I'm a program facilitator at Sex out loud. I'm studying biochemistry and neurobiology on the pre-med track. I’m passionate about health equity, sexual health education, and community engagement. In my free time, I enjoy reading manhwa and manhua, listening to music and cooking Len (They/He/She) Engagement Coordinator Hi there! My name is Len, and I am a junior majoring in Biology with certificates in Science Communications, Health & the Humanities, and Promoting Activity for Diverse Abilities. I am interested in sexual health care equity and accessibility as well as the history of comprehensive sex education and health care in Wisconsin. In my free time, I love to read, hang out with my cat, and watch movies with my friends. Jo (She/Her) Program Facilitator Hello! My name is Jo, and I am a program facilitator here at Sex Out Loud! I am a sophomore majoring in both Microbiology and Sociology. I am deeply devoted to creating a community of conversation surrounding sexual health and wellbeing, consent, and contraception. In my free time, I love discovering new music, having fun with fashion, and learning new pasta recipes. Leo (They/Them ) Program Facilitator Heyy! My name is Leo and I am a senior majoring in Wildlife Ecology and Life Science Communication. In my time here at Sex Out Loud I seek to further educate myself and make educating others on sexual health topics fun! Im passionate about queer and trans sex education and inclusivity. In my personal life, I enjoy the great outdoors, arts & crafting, and fashion. I hope to see you around the office :)! Tyler (He/Him ) Program Facilitator Hello! My name is Tyler. I am a Junior studying art education, and I am involved with The Issue club on campus. In my free time I enjoy listening to music, watching films, thrifting, playing card games, and taking care of my plants! Abygael (They/She ) Program Facilitator Hi! I'm Abygael, a junior studying Nursing and Gender & Women's Studies. At Sex Out Loud I love to help students learn more about our safer sex supplies, birth control, and accessing healthcare locally! In my free time I enjoy reading (always looking for book recommendations!!!!), crocheting, driving + blasting music, and playing games with friends. Continuing Ed is a set of projects that staff and volunteer members can work on throughout the semester to improve their sex education knowledge as well as inform their peers. Examples of Continuing Ed projects include: Zines, pamphlets, presentations, or new programs. These projects can cover a wide variety of topics like Menstruation, PreP, LGBTQ+, and so many more! Continuing Ed What is it and who is involved? Evan Loftus This semester, I am working on our Sex After Dark event that we will be having in April during Sexual Health Week. This event, provides a space for students to ask anonymous questions in a judgement free and non-stigmatizing environment. I additionally am working on some documents that’ll help support us during peer-to-peer counseling sessions.

We Hire every semester! Join our team, providing university students with comprehensive, accessible, and pleasure-based sexuality education. Employment Sex Out Loud maintains hiring periods during both the Fall and Spring semesters. Any UW-Madison student is eligible to apply! Check here for updates on our hiring cycles. We strongly encourage LGBTQ+ persons, people of color, and self-identifying men to apply! Program Facilitator Application Events Coordinator Application Engagement Coordinator Application POSITIONS PROGRAM FACILITATOR Hours: 12/week Wages: $15/hour The Program Facilitators facilitate the free, fun, interactive, and educational programs (workshops) provided by Sex Out Loud. Program Facilitators travel to dormitories, sororities, fraternities, places of work, places of residence, social gatherings, or other organizations to educate campus and community members on the topics of safer sex, relationships, pleasure, kink, birth control, STIs, HIV/AIDS, LGBTQ health, and any other specialty sexual health topics that may be requested. Program Facilitators are expected to be up-to-date on sexual health information through continuing education and training; successfully create and maintain safe spaces to discuss issues of sexuality; and be prepared to answer any sexual health questions accurately to the best of their ability. Program Facilitators are also required to participate in program development and updating current programs. FINANCIAL COORDINATOR Hours: 18/week Wages: $15/hour The Sex Out Loud Financial Coordinator handles all of the finances of this student organization. Duties include: creating and updating the Sex Out Loud budget; creating and delivering budget proposals in front of SSFC; overseeing all purchases; paying all Sex Out Loud bills and invoices; overseeing staff payroll; attending mandatory SSFC and ASM finance meetings; meeting all SSFC, GSSF, and ASM deadlines by completing and delivering any required forms and paperwork. This position is directly responsible for handing the SSFC paperwork as well as biweekly payroll and purchasing supplies. EVENT COORDINATOR Hours: 16/week Wages: $15/hour The Sex Out Loud Events Coordinator plans and implements four major events per year: Condoms and Candy in October, National HIV & Aids Awareness, National Condom Week in February, and Sexual Health Week in April. The Event Coordinator designs activities, invites speakers, plans workshops, and gets access to venues for the events. They are also responsible for designing activities, inviting speakers, planning workshops (event activities), and gaining access to venues for the events. The Event Coordinator is encouraged to use creativity and innovation to expand on past events and collaborate with other student and community groups. This position is responsible for creating events and promoting Sex Out Loud programming to the university enabling students to decide if they wish to utilize Sex Out Loud programming. MARKETING & OUTREACH COORDINATOR Hours: 16/week Wages: $15/hour The marketing and outreach coordinator will be responsible for meeting and networking with the larger campus and city communities to promote Sex Out Loud programming as well as other collaborations.The marketing and outreach coordinator is expected to create flyers and marketing materials to promote Sex Out Loud.The marketing and outreach coordinator is expected to keep the staff current about past, present, and future outreach events. Finally, the marketing and outreach coordinator is expected to maintain the official Sex Out Loud website and all social media platforms. ENGAGEMENT COORDINATOR Hours: 16/week Wages: $15/hour The Sex Out Loud Engagement Coordinator networks with the larger campus and city communities to promote Sex Out Loud programming as well as other collaborations. Their job is to maintain a large presence on campus. This includes promoting Sex Out Loud; maintaining contacts with other student organizations and university branches to collaborate in programming and events; setting up regular ‘tabling sessions’ whenever relevant; and running the volunteer program. CHAIR - PROGRAM COORDINATOR Hours: 20/week Wages: $15/hour The Chair of the Organization is responsible for providing the staff fall and spring training. The chair is expected to provide the staff with other opportunities for ongoing learning and professional development.The chair will also make every effort to provide high quality programming to the wider student and campus community. The chair is responsible for scheduling and booking all programs in a timely and professional manner in addition to helping create new or specialized programming. The chair is responsible for supervising and evaluating the program facilitators. Additionally, the chair is required to fill out RSO Registration documents and GSSF eligibility criteria paperwork on an annual basis.

STIs are more likely to be passed along when we are too embarrassed to talk about them. We encourage you to help eliminate the stigma around sexuality and STIs by talking to your friends and partners about testing and condoms with confidence. SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED INFECTIONS STIs are more likely to be passed along when we are too embarrassed to talk about them. We encourage you to help eliminate the stigma around sexuality and STIs by talking to your friends and partners about testing and condoms with confidence, and being accepting and affirming of partners who have an STI. We should get tested 1-2 times a year if we’re in a monogamous relationship and 3-4 times a year if we change partners more often (or just any time we’re worried about it!). MOST COMMON SEXUALLY TRANSMITTED INFECTION Chlamydia Chlamydia is the most common STI at UW-Madison! A bacteria passed along through fluids. Condoms are 98% effective at protecting against the spread of Chlamydia. It can cause clear discharge from the urethra opening of a penis, burning, itching, and scratching. Some people describe it as like“peeing razors”. But is often sneaky and we may have no symptoms at all. We can be tested for free at UHS! Chlamydia is curable with antibiotics, antibiotics cost about $15 with insurance depending on the plan. it's important to Follow the treatment regimen carefully and abstain from sex 7-10 days; even after symptoms go away to make sure it has completely cleared up. What happens when we don’t have health care? The Planned Parenthood (Madison South Health Center) on the south side of madison offers a lot of sexual health services, such as STI testing, pregnancy testing, emergency contraception, and birth control counseling and placement. They accept most insurance, including medicaid, but no one is turned away because of an inability to pay. Lack of insurance - There are a lot of people who have less access to healthcare due to a lack of insurance. This can make seeking out sexual and reproductive health much harder, and it impacts some people more than others. Don’t be afraid to advocate for your health and learn resources in your community; there are always people willing to help.

Our programs include a mix of interactive activities, guided group discussion, and presentation by trained peer facilitators. Typically, programs last anywhere from 60 to 90 minutes. Request a Program All programs offered both virtually and in person. Our programs include a mix of interactive activities, guided group discussion, and presentation by trained peer facilitators. Typically, programs last anywhere from 60 to 90 minutes, but we are happy to change the duration or modify the content with advanced notice. IF YOU ARE SEEKING TO REQUEST A SEX OUT LOUD PROGRAM, PLEASE CLICK Programs are scheduled during Sunday staff meetings! Depending on when your request is submitted, it may take up to ONE WEEK for a confirmation. Please plan accordingly with dates & times requested. Here Got more questions? Email Sexoutloud.program@gmail.com Ethical Porn Safer Sex Adv. Pleasure Accessibly Sexy Birth Control Pleasure Sex Jeopardy Lgbtq + Adv. Sex Jeopardy Greek Life Sexability Kink Sex and Healing HIV Bootcamp Masturbation Healthy Relationships Descriptions ETHICAL PORN (NEW) 90 Minutes Proper usage of barrier methods and safer sex practices Break down common assumptions/critiques of porn Understand what porn is and the key differences between ethical and mainstream porn Identify how fetishization and a lack of consent are perpetuated in mainstream pornography and challenge these ideas Practice media literacy with a focus on pornography in identifying how categories and visuals contribute to our viewing experience Challenge typical sexual scripts depicted in pornography SAFER SEX 90 Minutes Discussion and resource referral pertaining to sexual assault on UW campus Proper usage of barrier methods and safer sex practices Defining consent Interactive activities for bystander intervention Identifying and de-stigmatizing STIS STIs: testing & treatment activities Introduction to unplanned pregnancy and HIV ADVANCED PLEASURE 90 Minutes Proper usage of barrier methods and safer sex practices Science of sex positions Sex toys and how to use them Thinking outside the box in our sexual lives Communication tips & tricks for partners ACCESSIBLY SEXY 90 Minutes : Intro to Sex & Disability (NEW) Learn the basics of disability, including the social model Reflect on preconceived beliefs and misconceptions about disability Explore Spoon Theory and its implications in relationships Discuss bodily autonomy, consent, and self-determination Identify sexual accommodations and adaptive tools Gain knowledge about the accessibility features of sex toys and other access tools 90 Minutes PLEASURE Proper usage of barrier methods and safer sex practices Introduce the concept of sexual empowerment and pleasure Anatomical exploration of pleasure organs Explore sexual pleasure as a full body experience that includes all senses De-stigmatizing Sex and empowering personal autonomy Overview and preview of basic pleasure enhancing toys 90 Minutes LGBTQIA+ Proper usage of barrier methods and safer sex practices Introduction to identity and explore the nuances of assuming identity Understanding personal gender identity and societal constructions of gender Explore the embodied experience of Coming Out and reduce expectations and pressure pertaining to the experience of “Coming Out" 1-2 Hours SEX JEOPARDY Proper usage of barrier methods and safer sex practices Classic jeopardy game with a fun and sexy twist- Fun for all groups Get quizzed on interesting and informative questions on sexual health, identity, expression, pleasure, and sex! ADVANCED SEX JEOPARDY 90 Minutes Proper usage of barrier methods and safer sex practices Take on the challenge as a first-time Sex Jeopardy player or level up with new questions Get quizzed on interesting and informative questions on human sexuality including sexual health, identity, history, birth control, HIV/AIDS, Kink, and health care. 90 Minutes GREEK LIFE Proper usage of barrier methods and safer sex practices Define and discuss consent in various contexts Introduce the topic of intimate relationships, boundaries, preferences, and personal identity Discussion of sexual implications of norms and actions in the campus community and Greek community that do not emphasize consent to challenge rape culture Discussing bystander intervention tactics as well as sexual violence reporting resources SEXABILITY 90 Minutes : Adv. Sex & Disability (NEW) Understand the importance of accessible sex education and existing barriers Discuss communication for relationships and intimacy with a focus on disabled individuals Identify sexual accommodations and adaptive tools Gain knowledge about the accessibility features of sex toys and other access tools Explore bodily autonomy, addressing the disproportionate amount of sexual violence faced by disabled individuals BIRTH CONTROL, AUTONOMY, & JUSTICE 90 Minutes Proper usage of barrier methods and safer sex practices Explore various Birth Control Options, Visuals, and Efficacy Facilitate Discussion of various impacts of diverse contraceptive methods Focus on autonomy of choice, communication, and accessibility in relation to reproductive health Identify differences and values among Birth Justice and Reproductive Justice HIV BOOTCAMP 90 Minutes Proper usage of barrier methods and safer sex practices Walkthrough of biological and physiological mechanisms Treatment options including Pre-exposure, Post-exposure Explore the harm and history of stigma surrounding HIV & AIDS Differentiate between HIV & AIDS Discussion of HIV+ status and supporting community members who are positive. 90 Minutes HEALTHY RELATIONSHIPS Proper usage of barrier methods and safer sex practices Explore personal identity and asserting personal boundaries Explore different types of relationships and relationship abuse Practice healthy communication tips & techniques Facilitate Conversations on dating/sexual/domestic violence Recognize Different Forms of Abuse Evaluate and reflect on the different kinds of love languages KINK 90 Minutes Proper usage of barrier methods and safer sex practices A Sex-Positive Approach to understanding informed, safe, consensual, kink Overview of sexuality and eroticism Explore and impliment different consent models Discussion of fetishes Explore safety, pleasure, and communication for engaging in KINK & BDSM SEX & HEALING 90 Minutes Proper usage of barrier methods and safer sex practices Introduce what sexual healing is, how trauma affects ones sex life, the different ways to heal from sexual wounds Facilitate space and implement tools for practicing Mindfulness Techniques Understanding and communicating sexual pain and discomfort Practice Advocating for Self and Seeking Help From Healthcare Providers Learn about prevention and alleviation practices against bodily trauma during sexual acts Communicating sexual pain with our partners MASTURBATION 90 Minutes Proper usage of barrier methods and safer sex practices Dispel common myths and shame surrounding masturbation Explore masturbation techniques and types of sex toys and their possible uses Explore how pornography can inform experiences with masturbation, sex, and intimacy Normalize self-stimulation and encourage pleasure-seeking activities

Resources available in and around the Madison area. RESOURCES Dane County Rape Crisis Center "RCC advocates for those harmed by sexual violence by centering survivors, promoting societal change, and committing to be an evolving force for social equity." thercc.org P.A.V.E UW Madison "Promoting Awareness, Victim Empowerment (PAVE-UW) is a student organization dedicated to preventing sexual assault, dating violence, and stalking through education and activism." paveuwmadison.com UNIDOS Wisconsin GSCC "The Gender and Sexuality Campus Center provides education, outreach, advocacy, and resources for UW-Madison student communities and their allies to improve campus climate and their daily intersectional experiences." lgbt.wisc.edu Vivent health "People living with HIV are at the center of everything we do at Vivent Health. That’s why our expert medical treatment and care is second-to-none. We operate the nation’s premier HIV Medical Home, bringing together an expert team of outstanding, compassionate physicians and nurses who are dedicated to patient care." viventhealth.org "UNIDOS brinda servicios, programación y apoyo a aquellas personas afectadas por el abuso doméstico o sexual en el condado de Dane y sus alrededores. Los servicios son gratuitos, confidenciales y están disponibles independientemente de la edad, sexo, raza, orientación sexual o discapacidad." unidoswi.org

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Looking for ways to take action and support sexual positivity and equality? We've gathered organizations, funds, and petitions that align with our values to make it easy for you to contribute to a better world. Join us in making a difference, one action at a time. Take Action Looking for ways to take action and support sexual positivity and equality? We've gathered organizations, funds, and petitions that align with our values to make it easy for you to contribute to a better world. Join us in making a difference, one action at a time. "NNAF is a network of 100 abortion funds. Abortion funds are grassroots organizations that support people seeking abortion access. Together, we’re organizing at the crossroads of racial, economic, and reproductive justice." The National Network of Abortion Funds Abortionfunds.org Giving Tuesday for Planned Parenthood Action Fund, support activities to protect and promote reproductive health nationwide. All gifts will be DOUBLED by a generous donor, up to a total of $100,000, until midnight on November 28. Planned Parenthood Action Fund Plannedparenthoodaction.org "Since inception, the organization has been at the forefront of women’s health issues, through comprehensive public education initiatives that promote overall wellness of Black women." The Black Women's Health Imperative bwhi.org SUBMIT A ORGANIZATION OR PETITION Name/Title Enter URL Email OUR MISSION & VALUES Sex Out Loud's mission is to promote healthy sexuality through sex-positive education and activism. We acknowledge that each individual's sexuality is uniquely shaped by all facets of identity and experience. We seek to empower all students by providing inclusive and accessible programs, events, and resources, and by creating safe space where students can freely discuss these issues. Stigma reduction | Peer-to-peer | Pleasure-inclusive Consent culture | Inclusivity & Safer Spaces How does this Organization or petition align with SOL's mission? Submit Thanks for Submitting!

SOL Consent Model Sex Out Loud defines consent as... Clear Specific Fully understood No doubt Overt action and speech Informed STI Status Birth control method, barrier method, if there are other partners Not informed: Deceptive Continuous Consent is reversible! Consent can be revoked at any time Use Check-In systems (e.g stop light system, safe words) Freely given Absence of coercion or influence Not the absence of a no Don't assume yes is the default Why is Consent Important Respects autonomy: Affirms the right of us and our partner(s) to make our own choices. Supports well-being: Reinforces the importance of making decisions that feel safe and right for each person. Establishes clear boundaries: Promotes mutual understanding and helps prevent harm or discomfort.

Sex Out Loud's mission is to promote healthy sexuality through sex-positive education and activism. We acknowledge that each individual's sexuality is uniquely shaped by all facets of identity and experience. We seek to empower students to engage with these issues. OUR MISSION & VALUES Sex Out Loud's mission is to promote healthy sexuality through sex-positive education and activism. We acknowledge that each individual's sexuality is uniquely shaped by all facets of identity and experience. We seek to empower all students by providing inclusive and accessible programs, events, and resources, and by creating safe space where students can freely discuss these issues. Stigma reduction | Peer-to-peer | Pleasure-inclusive Consent culture | Inclusivity & Safer Spaces Get Involved Information OUR OFFICE Address 333 East Campus Mall Suite 3143 Madison, WI Contact 608-890-2138 Hours Mon - Fri 10:00 am – 6:00 pm Ask.sexoutloud@gmail.com Ask Us A Question 333 East Campus Mall Suite 3143 Our office is a safe and inclusive space where you can find our trained staff who are always excited to answer your questions! We offer free and confidential peer to peer counseling, a stocked library, board games, free safer sex supplies (including condoms, lube, sex dams, gloves, and more) and, of course, a giant penis piñata!